What Pretty means...

PRETTY. What a loaded word. But the reason I chose it- is that it has nothing to do with any specific standard of "beauty". When someone is pretty, it just means that they glow from the inside. There's no connection to age, weight, race, social status- any woman can be pretty.

These days, women are being asked to conform, more and more, to a standard of beauty that is not only unnatainable, but harmful. I know, because I have spent the better part of my life trying to attain it. What scares me is that it starts much much younger now- girls as young as 5 are "aware" of their beauty or lack thereof and want to take "steps" to change that (diets, dress, and god knows what else). I ALSO know that we, the female population are indirectly responsible for this. The proliferation of imagery through the net and hyper-media of today dont help, but we have a part to play in it.


I am starting this blog based on my own somewhat personal desire to contribute to a positive image for women, to empower me to see myself, and hopefully each other differently. Differently than what you say?

Than what we've been told we NEED to look like to be attractive
Than what magazines and media tell us is the "standard" for beauty and attractiveness


I am also going to post articles. pics that both expose how media manipulates images to make us strive for a standard that doesnt exist, as well as laud those that promote healthy, real images.

We women are the consumers- statistically, 85% of purchases are made by women....so that must mean..WE BUY ALL THE MAGAZINES THAT PERPETUATE THESE IMAGES...


I have to hope that the bottom line is that we'll all start feeling better about ourselves, allow our young girls to define themselves differently than they do today and provide some positive imagery for us to refer back to.